Values
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a framework to understand loves and Love
About “True love”. My friend Hahns once told me there was no such thing as fake and true love their is just love and it is unconditional. It makes sense. There is no fake love, just love. About the unconditional thing i wonder, if a mother loves h… Read more
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I’m Still Here – Joaquin Phoenix Using His Life to make a Study Case
I watched I’m Still Here this week, it was quite random, just found it at my place, dont remember buying it, maybe a AIrBnB guest left it. I love Joaquin Phoenix since The Village – the most beautiful love story ever. So watched it and was quite u… Read more
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Vulnerability is not weakness: Mastering Shame.
Just watched this TED speech from Brene Brown and I can not agree more with her.I wrote before 2 reasons for this blog: 1) Sharing my experience of being a community builder with iWeekend and inspire others. 2) Being Open and Transparent to help b… Read more
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Why do you like helping others? The Superman syndrome
Why do YOU do it? – You reached a stage in life where you know how to be happy and understand that happiness is the only thing that when shared, it multiplied (I read that somewhere^^). In order to sustain your own happiness in society you better … Read more
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If you are the smarter one, you are the one who have to make the effort.
I use to say that to my friends more and more when they enter in conflict with someone and suffer from it. ???If you are the smarter one, you are the one who have to make the effort???. It is unfair but it is the way it is. Ex: My friend Shelly and he… Read more
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Ender’s Game teaching
Sometimes you meet the right person at the righ timing but they are not ready. They are stuck in their own world (like in Inception), protecting themselves from others. Maybe they got hurt too bad. That is when the choice come to you: – Do you wan… Read more
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Lin, Zuck, Obama : 3 hot guys, 3 game changers
I wrote this post after reading today???s article from Douglas Rushkoff for CNN (see below link). Their common point? Part of minority, maybe even disregard by others. That teach you tolerance. Also being multi-cultural, you already get exposed to o… Read more
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What qualified as moral harassment? Aka. How to kill innovation in China.
Here is the story I need some external judgement here. In Dec. I submitted a project to deliver in May to my boss, he thought it was interesting and said I can start working on it. I designed a plan and start collected information about it to educ… Read more
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My rules of Friendship
Friends can rely on each other. If you feel upset, lonely depressed, you call them. Friends are here for you, unless they have something important. They define themselves what is important or not. But if so they come back to you as soon as they ar… Read more
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Love, Family or Others..Where would you choose to focus your passion?
Last week my best friend told me half joking: – ???I don’t see you coming back in our hometown, now, you still haven???t accomplished what you are supposed to accomplish in life???. And I answered half joking: – ??? I can come back in our hometown for 2-3… Read more
Carole in the "Fresh" 